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Empower Overseas Chinese Families
Heal Yourself, Transform Your Life
Supporting overseas Chinese families toward connection, healing, and wholeness.
Living and raising a family abroad carries both freedom and weight. Different cultures. Different expectations. Unspoken pressure and silent loneliness in a foreign land.
Many parents come to me because they feel tired, anxious, or stuck.
They care deeply about their children and family, but something in the relationship no longer flows easily.
Conversations become tense. Conflicts repeat. And the pressure to hold everything together can feel overwhelming.
You may recognize yourself in this:
Disconnection at home
Conversations feel exhausting, and real connection with your child or partner seems out of reach.
Recurring conflicts
Arguments about school, screens, boundaries, or responsibilities repeat again and again.
Cross-generational and cultural tension
Different cultural values, expectations, and family histories collide.
Emotional overload
You feel anxious, drained, or unsure how to move forward as a parent and partner.
If this resonates, please know this:
You are not failing.
You are navigating complex family dynamics.
I have walked this path myself, and I have accompanied hundreds of overseas Chinese parents and families facing similar struggles.
How My Work Can Support You
Through Systemic Coaching, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and Family Constellations, I support parents and families to:
- calm anxiety and emotional overwhelm
- understand why conflicts keep repeating
- rebuild trust and communication with children and partners
- release emotional burdens carried across generations
- regain clarity, confidence, and direction as a parent
- create a home where connection and respect can grow again
This work helps you change the patterns that keep you and your family stuck, so you can move forward with more calm, understanding, and connection.
What people are saying about my work
Working with Mei offered a deep, embodied experience that helped me reconnect with my partner and our children. I learned how to support them with more presence and understanding. This work brought a profound sense of closeness and healing to our family.
— Coaching Client
When I was feeling lost and overwhelmed, Mei’s patient listening and gentle guidance helped me reconnect with myself and find clarity again. Through her warm presence and deep insight, I learned to accept myself more fully and approach life with greater calm and meaning. I am deeply grateful for her support and care.
— Coaching Client
My experience with the workshop was an intense and valuable journey. I received clear insight into my origins and patterns, and this brought a deep inner peace. I’m deeply grateful for Mei’s loving, attentive, and compassionate guidance.
— Participant, Roots & Wings Systemic Work Workshop
A very powerful and professionally guided workshop. The combination of English and Chinese flowed smoothly and was incredibly meaningful. Mei created a safe, trusting space where deep insights could arise. My experience was transformative.
— Participant, Family Constellations Workshop
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1-on-1 Systemic & IFS Coaching
A grounded, embodied path toward inner alignment and family healing
In my coaching, I offer a safe and grounded space to slow down and look at what is really happening — in your life, your family, and within yourself.
Together, we work with systemic coaching, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and embodied exploration to understand:
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ongoing anxiety or inner tension
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patterns that keep repeating in your family or relationships
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the inner parts that worry, push, hold on, or feel exhausted
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the family and cultural influences shaping your choices and emotions
This work helps you regain clarity, calm, and direction — so you can respond to your family and life with more presence and confidence.
If you are struggling, you don’t have to carry it alone. There are gentle, practical, and effective ways to support yourself — and through that, your family.
If you feel ready to explore this together, you are warmly welcome to reach out.
📩 Email: mei@meeei.nl
📱 WeChat: soest8881533
📞 Phone: +31 6 13163900
Family Constellations Workshops
In my Systemic Work and Family Constellations workshops, we work in a small, safe group setting to explore family and life themes that feel stuck, heavy, or difficult to understand.
Through embodied, systemic exploration, hidden dynamics within families and across generations can become visible — often beyond what words alone can explain. This process can bring relief, insight, and new movement where patterns have repeated for a long time.
People join these workshops when they are experiencing:
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recurring family or relationship challenges
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tension between generations or cultures
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emotional burdens they cannot fully explain
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a sense of carrying something that doesn’t entirely feel theirs
You are welcome to join either as an issue holder with a personal question or as a representative. Both roles can be deeply meaningful and supportive.
Workshops are offered regularly and can be viewed and booked via Hipsy.
Free Resources To Explore
MEEEI HEARTLIGHT PODCAST (in Chinese)
In solo reflections and conversations with international experts, I share lived experiences, systemic insights, and gentle practices to support healing, connection across generations, and deeper relationships with children and partners. The podcast offers guidance on how to support children, strengthen family bonds, and live a more grounded, meaningful life as overseas Chinese families.
You can listen to the podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcast, and the Chinese platform Xiao Yu Zhou. You may also visit the BuzzSprout podcast page to explore additional listening platforms.
Subscribe and make sure you don’t miss any new episode released every Friday.
MEEEI YOUTUBE CHANNEL (In Chinese)
Some podcast episodes are also available in video format on YouTube.
Let’s shine the light together
My Story
My name is Mei Yang. I moved from China to the Netherlands in 1999 and have lived and worked between cultures ever since. For over 25 years, I facilitated intercultural cooperation between Dutch and Chinese organisations, including 18 years through my own consulting company.
My work changed direction when my family faced a deep crisis. When my eldest daughter was 15, we struggled in ways that traditional support could not resolve. As a mother, I felt lost, anxious, and powerless — yet determined to find another way.
That journey led me into systemic work, coaching, deep listening, and personal healing. By learning to slow down, listen differently, and meet ourselves and each other with presence, unconditional love, and acceptance, our family gradually found its way back to connection.
What began as a personal necessity became a calling.
I started supporting young people in China as a volunteer, then accompanying overseas Chinese parents in the Netherlands through workshops and coaching. In these safe and warm spaces, parents discovered they were not alone. They reconnected with themselves, learned from one another, and brought more calm, clarity, and trust back into their families.
Today, I work as a systemic coach, IFS coach, and family constellations facilitator, supporting overseas Chinese parents and families who feel anxious, disconnected, or stuck — and who want to heal themselves so their families can move forward.
My work is shaped by lived experience, professional training, and one deep knowing:
when people feel safe, seen, heard, and valued, their own wisdom emerges.
I believe that by healing ourselves, we bring light back into our families — and that light, shared together, can illuminate the world.
MEEEI
Bridge Cultures.
Heal Families.
Supporting overseas Chinese families toward connection, healing, and wholeness.
0031 6 13163900
mei@meeei.nl
Van Hamelstraat 22, 3762 JD Soest
The Netherlands
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